About My Spare Brain

I spend much time searching for things - books, films, stories, quotes, songs, jokes, pictures, poems, prayers, anything really - that helps me see and think differently. Some of the ideas I've come across are presented in my book, See New Now. Others are fleshed out in my other blog. The rest are stored here for use in future books, articles, blog posts, speeches, and workshops. There is little rhyme or reason for what I post here. I do this to encourage visitors to come here as treasure hunters looking for new ways of seeing and thinking vs. researchers looking for new or better answers to questions they already know how to ask.

PLEASE VISIT MY OTHER BLOG

My other blog is Conversation Kindling. Its purpose is to pass along stories, metaphors, quotes, songs, humor, etc. in hopes they'll be used to spark authentic and rewarding conversations about working and living fruitfully. There are at least three things you can gain by getting involved in these conversations. First, you can discover new and important things about yourself through the process of thinking out loud. Second, you can deepen your relationships with others who join you by swapping thoughts, feelings, and stories with them. Finally, you'll learn that robust dialogue centered on stories and experiences is the best way to build trust, create new knowledge, and generate innovative answers to the questions that both life and work ask.

May 13, 2010

QUICK TAKE: On Validating Others

Validation
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2 comments:

  1. How much does it cost to bless another person? How much time does it really take to make a difference? What could it mean to give the gift of a simple blessing (a kind word, an acknowledgement, an observation of the good in someone, and so on). Does it really matter that we simply let someone know "You are. And I noticed."?

    The cost is pretty much nothing... the time is measured in heartbeats not ticks of the clock... the meaning is calculated on the scales of eternity... and it matters because the blessor, more often than not, becomes the blessee.

    3. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. 4. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Philippians 2:3-4 NIV

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  2. Thanks John for this thoughtful comment.

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